Comments on: What Should or Shouldn't I Tell My Wife? http://purifyinggrace.com/my-pornography-addiction/what-should-or-shouldnt-i-tell-my-wife/ Recovery from pornography addiction (porn addiction, sex addiction) to sexual purity through God's grace. Thu, 23 Dec 2010 21:42:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Ashley Weis http://purifyinggrace.com/my-pornography-addiction/what-should-or-shouldnt-i-tell-my-wife/comment-page-1/#comment-143 Ashley Weis Tue, 04 Aug 2009 14:03:52 +0000 http://purifyinggrace.com/?p=496#comment-143 Yes. Definitely agree with you. I needed to know every little detail before I could trust George again. It hurt. But now it's made us stronger. Without every detail I would have imagined worse in my head. With the details, I know reality and we've worked through it. But I know some women who are fine regaining trust without knowing what she looked like, what he did, everything. And while I wish I was like that, I'm just not. Some counselors tell men not to tell their wives everything. But that's lying if she asks, and that's not going to help the situation at all. Once the porn addiction is exposed it's about finding purity and rebuilding trust. Yes. Definitely agree with you.

I needed to know every little detail before I could trust George again. It hurt. But now it’s made us stronger. Without every detail I would have imagined worse in my head. With the details, I know reality and we’ve worked through it.

But I know some women who are fine regaining trust without knowing what she looked like, what he did, everything. And while I wish I was like that, I’m just not.

Some counselors tell men not to tell their wives everything. But that’s lying if she asks, and that’s not going to help the situation at all. Once the porn addiction is exposed it’s about finding purity and rebuilding trust.

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